Its all about loving ourself

Everyday ..with a clumsy life of mine..i wake up, got ready in 15 min. and goes to office..
I know that what every office goer would do, Earning livelyhood for their family, for ourselves
and then back to home : Some with a sad face, some with a good face and some are in between happy sad or sad happy.

Everybody dont know what they are doing, how they are doing , still they are doing. but One day they ll probably know that why they are doing , may be because they want to see the smiles on their children faces, their parent's faces, their's teacher faces
or may be because they want to see the smile on their own face.

At least i am not one of them , who go to see the smile on my face..I really want to do something different, something extra.In a spree to do something extra, I have joined many courses, started writing blog, doing some social activities, participating in something good.
But is that really making me happy, i really dont know..what makes me happy

I have also falled in love many times and after falling down, I have soon wake up because i got dumped or sometimes i am lucky i am not dumped yeppie

But that doesnt mean i am happy, why i am not happy.
After searching and loosing good amount of money in stocks, watching some films, spending whole day at home. I just arrived at a conclusion that we are not here to make others happy. We are here to make us happy. If we are able to make us happy.we can make others too.

but question here is HOW??? How i ll be happy?

I just got the answer after seeing some of my friends photograph's tagline
"Life is about two things - Mind and Matter. If you doesnt not mind..It doesnt matter"

but that equation do really make me happy. frankly "not" .

I am not happy, its because i just got a lesson - if we start doing everything perfectly, rightly with a strong concentration ..woh kehte hain - "jo bhi karo dil lagaa kar karo..tab aapko khushi milegi".

kyunki tab aap actual mein kuch accha kar paaoge..jahan dil hai waha insaan fail nahi hota

So I realised start loving yourself, jab hum apne aap se pyaar karna shuru kar denge, we ll start loving others and its a chain reaction.

aur agar fail bhi ho gaye..toh bhi humein dukh nahi hoga because what the best we can do is only "to try".

Rest is to GOD..he is there for everything we do.

I like the quote in the film by SRK - Agar kisi cheez ko dil se chaho toh puri kayenaat , tumhe usse milaane mein lag jaati hai"

Being internally happy is more important because smile can not be pasted on the face with fevicol....

Metros Today Big Crowd..need Cultural Change

No Doubt with the expansion of Delhi Metro. More places in delhi are getting connected and, even adjoined areas.With this Metro is getting crowded day by day.

Fig : Shows future of Rajeev Chowk, Yamuna Bank

I am not a regular metro traveller known as "MT" but got a chance to travel by new phase of metro during this weekday after a long time. You can experience the crowd as described in above video. It took me 30 minutes to get inside in it. As the metro coming to the stations were already crowded.

Did you know the crowd was there..but there were also some empty spaces in between. People were pulling on the doors even though they know their station is far away and that blocks the space of someone to enter in the compartment.

SO what i feel..Delhi Metro should start some campaign to teach commuters on how to stand, sit and walk at Metro stations so as to avoid unnecessary crowded sometimes created during peak hours.

People should stand away from the doors and stand near to it only after they knew that their departing station is next